Sunday, February 28, 2010

A farewell to Larry

After a short but courageous battle with cancer, the Lord took my Uncle Larry home this past weekend. I was honored to write his obituary, so I share it here as a final tribute.


Larry Hubert Ely was born March 3, 1945 in Amarillo, Texas to Walter and Ruth Ely. He grew up in Dumas and Sunray, Texas. Larry graduated from Sunray High School 1963. He served in the Navy during the Vietnam War from 1965 to 1971. He was very patriotic and loved his country.

Larry married Ione Browder in 1970, and she preceded him in death in 1993. Larry married again in 1995 to Linda Davis and became part of a family who adored him and whom he loved deeply. He was an avid musician and loved to share his talent of playing the guitar and fiddle with others. He wrote many inspiring songs, most of which centered on his faith. Larry loved to sing and play his instruments at family gatherings and at home. In 2009 he became a member of the Yesteryear Band. He had a passion for all kinds of music, but his favorite was the blues.

Larry worked as a welder/operator for Continental Carbon for 37 years. An inventor by heart, he created some of the most unusual bicycles that everyone enjoyed riding. He never met anything he couldn’t fix. If Larry couldn’t fix it, it couldn’t be fixed. He was a jokester and loved to tease others and laugh. Larry loved spending time with his family, especially his two great grandchildren, Brandi and Leland, whom were the joy of his life.

Larry was raised in the Assembly of God Church but, feeling like a Baptist at heart, he became a member of First Baptist Church in Dumas, Texas in 1987. He loved his Lord and left a legacy of faith and strength to all who loved him and walked with him through his short but courageous battle with cancer. It was in dying that Larry taught us how to live.

Larry was preceded in death by his parents, Walter and Ruth Ely; granddaughter, Shelby Davis; mother-in-law, Bennie Hall; father-in-law, John Harmon; niece, Beverly Bennett; and uncle, Hubert Norrell.

Survivors include wife Linda Ely of the home; three children, Kelly Davis of Dumas, Texas, Terri Gambrel and husband Joey of Channing, Texas, and Chad Ely and wife Mary Ann of Sunray, Texas; a loving brother, Gerald Ely and wife Cheryl of Pampa, Texas, and brother Buzzy Ely and wife Kay of Gillette, Wyoming; six grandchildren, Abby Tipton and husband Trey of Amarillo, Texas, Christen Davis of Amarillo, Texas, Ariel and Sarah Gambrell of Channing, Texas, and Garrett and Abigail Ely of Sunray, Texas; two great grandchildren, Brandi and Leland Tipton of Amarillo, Texas; favorite aunt, Francis Norrell of Sunray, Texas; brothers- and sisters-in-law, Gene and DeLynn Hall of Waco, Texas, Don and Barbara Wright of Muldrow, Oklahoma, Larry and Judy Cummins of Pueblo, Colorado, Bob and Janet Pomykala of Baytown, Texas, Fate Bennett of Fritch, Texas, Jackie Davis of Dumas, Texas; many nieces, nephews, cousins; his pecan-eating buddies, Pepper, Gracie, Tootsie and Maggie; and many friends, all of whom will greatly miss him.

Tuesday, February 23, 2010

Diary of a picker eater, part 2

* Usually I love toast for breakfast. Today I will only eat yogurt. Nothing else!
* Yesterday I refused to eat a banana. Today the only thing I will eat for lunch is three bananas.
* Normally, I love to eat pasta of any kind. Tonight I will scream when you try to give me a bite of pasta for dinner.
* I haven't eaten green beans in months. Tonight I will eat 5 of them, then scream when you give me more.
* I will take five bites of Daddy's pasta off his plate even though it is the exact same pasta I just refused to eat from my own plate.
* I will not consider eating a granola bar. No matter what!
* I will throw a huge fit if you even show me a grape.

{sigh}

Sunday, February 14, 2010

Valentine Highlights

This morning Emma wanted to make a special breakfast, so we made homemade donuts! Yum!!! We used a heart-shaped cookie cutter to cut out the centers, which left us with heart-shaped donutholes (perfect for Nate). This is the same way I used to make them when I was a kid. Such a hit that Emma has declared this to be the official Valentine breakfast for years to come!






I wanted to show some pictures of Emma's school party, because I got to coordinate it this year. They played a game where they had to match their puzzle piece of heart to a friend's half. Once they had read the verse on their completed puzzle, they got a prize.


Then they got to decorate a heart-shaped cupcake and eat it!



This was Emma's Valentine pocket for all her goodies.



Wednesday, February 10, 2010

Sacrifice of Praise

My bloggy friend Lani posted the following quote on her Blessings 365 blog. It has been such an encouragement and challenge to me this week, so I wanted to share it with you. Take time to meditate on your own sacrifice of praise.

If you praise the Lord through a minor hardship or a major trial, you are offering a sacrifice of praise. Such a sacrifice costs you plenty - your pride, your anger, your human logic, and the luxury of your complaining tongue. A sacrifice of praise costs you your will, your resentment, and even your desire to have your own way in a situation. And for whose sake do we give up these things? We do so for the sake of Christ and for His glory. Praise in those circumstances is painful. Nevertheless, it is logical, even if our logic argues that God has no idea what He's doing. ~ Joni Eareckson Tada

Monday, February 8, 2010

Beauty Divine

Today I'm feeling reflective. Pensive. Anxious. Alone. There's just a mix of feelings that when you put them all together add up to a big jumbled heart.

I've been praying all morning...for peace, wisdom, guidance, strength. We have a lot on our emotional plates right now. A family member dying. A family member's unexpected passing. A family member's extended illness. Conflicting schedules. Disappointments.

As I was sitting and reflecting on some Scripture I had read, I became aware of a song playing in the background. It was "Beauty Divine" by Brandon Heath. I heard these words, and they spoke volumes to me.

"Quiet your mind...We're not alone. He makes Himself known in time. His own time."

I'm thankful for this reminder today. I am not alone. I have a friend who is "Himself my peace."

Friday, February 5, 2010

We are FORWARD MOTION

The name of my relay team for the Oklahoma City Marathon is Forward Motion! The inspiration was taken from this blog post.

My team members are:
* Mendy: My soon-to-be sister-in-law (who attends the same college I graduated from 13 years ago)!
* Meghan: Her college friend and fellow SGA member.
* Amy: My friend of 10 years who went to the same college as me (although we didn't meet till after college).
* Amber: Her friend and also an SNU alumni.

Let the training begin!

Thursday, February 4, 2010

From the diary of a picky eater (name withheld to protect the not-so-innocent)

  • No, I will not eat that lunch meat even though I devoured it for 3 months straight!
  • Yes, I want a banana...and another one...and another one...and another one.
  • No, I will not eat cooked carrots today...unless they are smothered in mashed potatoes...then I will eat lots of them!
  • I will scream until you give me those blueberries...then I will throw them on the floor because I have decided I do not like fruit of any kind. Except bananas. I want a banana!
  • I refuse to eat green beans even though I have always loved them. Not today. Today I hate green beans.
  • Today I will eat steamed asparagus and broccoli...mainly because you never thought I would eat such things.
  • I used to love bread. Now I will refuse anything that resembles bread.
  • Rice Chex. Some days I love them. Some days I loathe them. Guess which one is today?!
  • I will always eat pasta...unless I decide I won't. For now, I will. I love Ramen!
  • Cookies! Brownies! Ice cream! Why can't I have these all the time? You are so unreasonable, Mom!
  • Jerky! I love Daddy's homemade elk and antelope and deer jerky. Gimme!!!
  • No, I don't like meat. Get that chicken away from me.

I wonder why my Mommy gets so worn out at meal time?

Wednesday, February 3, 2010

Forward Motion

I may be the only person on the planet who has ever cried while running on the treadmill, but I did it. There...it's out there. I cried after seeing my time on the treadmill.

The problem is I used to be fast. In fact, I was 13 the first time I set a city track record. But life happened, I quit running, I had two kids, I turned 36! I AM as young as I think I am, but my body's not.

The truth is...this whole running business has become a serious issue for me. Why?! I started running 4 months ago while on a road trip. I simply wanted to continue exercising while on vacation, and I thought this would be the easiest way to do it. I never intended to take up a new sport. But I enjoyed running. And I had several friends blogging about their newfound running experiences...so I was inspired.

That led to me signing up for my first 5K to take place in March. I've been excited about it and its given me a goal to work towards. The place where things went haywire was the day I emailed Mendy and Amy and suggested we put together a relay team for the OKC Memorial Marathon (and they said "yes").

For the first time I became anxious and worried and consumed with my running time. Up until last night I had not timed myself, but I felt the need to know how fast (or how slow) I was running. That's when I cried. So right there on the treadmill I decided I needed to get some things straight...with myself and with God.

I accepted the obvious: its been 20+ years since I have run in a race. I had a baby 15 months ago and my recovery was so difficult and slow that I couldn't walk across the room without pain for 4 months!!! I've only been back to running for 4 months...95% of which is on the treadmill because we are in the middle of winter!

Then more importantly, I settled things with God. I decided that I would committ this race and all my workouts to Him. I would do it as a symbol of the freedom I have in Christ: I am free to run! I am free to dance! I am free to live for Him! I am free! I will not run for my own glory, for praise from my team members or friends or family. I will run "unto the Lord." (Colossians 3:23)

This verse has become a daily reminder of truth and focus for me: "...train yourself to be godly. For physical training is of some value, but godliness has value for all things, holding promise for both the present life and the life to come." ~ 1 Timothy 4:7-8

Dear Lord, With every step I take may I become more like You. May this training be for godliness. Help me keep a steadfast mind based on truth, for you delight in my faith not my strength. (Psalm 147:10-11). Amen.

P.S. The title of this post came from my favorite running song, "Forward Motion." It's the song I was listening to while having a battle of emotions on the treadmill.



Monday, February 1, 2010

What a weekend!

We had a busy weekend with lots of fun activities. Emma went to a cheer clinic on Saturday morning and got to cheer at half time during the varsity basketball game that night. What fun! I did get pictures, but they have been taken hostage by Tim's phone. As soon as I figure that out, I will post them.

And in a moment of weakness, I suggested to my friend Amy and my future SIL Mendy that we form a relay team to run the Oklahoma City Memorial Marathon in April! They said "yes" and had two other runners to join us in a matter of minutes. So I guess we are doing this thing.

It occured to me afterwards that perhaps I should run my first 5K before signing up for another one. Thankfully, I am just doing a 5K leg of the race...so here we go!

Oh, and the icing on the cake for this race is that my Mom and sister are going with me (my first girl's weekend in over 2 years...and my first time away from Nate overnight) and we will get to attend Mendy's bridal shower!!!! YEAH! I am so excited!!! Plus we get to see my brother Tomy! I submit this trip can't get much better!